【Lesbian Life】教你怎么勾搭直女。

看到了一美国Les的博客，发现有些文章还挺有意思的。转过来~ 我翻译的很二，大家将就看…… Flirting Tips for Lesbians 给lesiban的调情小妙招~（译者注，这里的调情请完全理解为褒义） How to let her know you're interested 怎么让她知道你喜欢她呢 How does a woman flirt with another woman? That can be tricky, especially if you do not know the sexual orientation of the object of your flirt. 女人怎么跟女人调情？这可是很微妙的问题，尤其是当你还不知道调情对象的性向的时候。 There's nothing like having someone flirt with you to boost your self-esteem. Whether or not you return the attraction, it feels good to know that someone finds you attractive. Flirting is an art. It's a two-way game. You have to be able to read your partner's interest and comfort in the flirtation in order to know how to proceed. 没什么比被人调情更能让你的自尊心暴涨了。不论你是否回应她，知道别人觉得你很迷人也让你感觉很好。调情是一门艺术。是一个双向游戏。你得了解对方的喜好，才能知道怎么进行下去。 But, if done properly, there is nothing better or more exciting than letting the electricity grow between you two in the beginning stages of a relationship. Flirting can be subtle or overt. I prefer the subtle kind. 但是，如果做的到位，没什么比两人关系开始之初的电流交会更愉快和刺激了。调情可以是隐秘的，也可以是公开的，我倾向于前者。 Here's some tips for flirting: 以下是调情的建议： When you're out together, try to sit near her. Notice if she moves closer or farther away. When you're sitting on a couch and your thighs touch, what does she do? Does she let it stay or inch away? 你们一起出去的时候，试着坐的离她近一点儿。注意她是离的更近还是挪远了。当你们坐在沙发上，碰到了彼此的大腿，她如何反应？是安然处之还是微微挪开了？ Look her in the eye when you are talking. Hold the stare for a little longer than you would a normal conversation. It may sound corny, but open a door for her to walk through. 当你们聊天的时候，看着她的眼睛。凝视她，比普通社交对话的对视时间稍稍加长，也许这很平淡，但是打开了一扇让她走进你内心世界的门。 （译者再注，专家曾经做过测试，让不相识的陌生男女对看五分钟，好感度上升60%！） If you're sitting across from each other, gently put your hand on hers. Don't move it away unless she does. Tell her she looks nice tonight. Compliment her hair or outfit. 如果你们相对而坐，轻轻的把你的手放在她的手上。不要拿开，除非她拿开了。告诉她她今晚看起来很美，赞美她的头发或者打扮。（译者再注：百试不爽） Find out what makes her laugh. There's nothing like humor to cut the tension and loosen you both up. Offer to get her a drink if you're at a party or bar together. 找出什么能让她开怀大笑。没有什么比幽默更能打破紧张气氛，让你俩都放松下来。如果你们是在趴体上或是酒吧里，给她倒杯酒吧。 Touch her hand or shoulder when you hand her a drink. 给她递酒的时候碰她的手或肩膀。（译者再注：拿捏好了这招也是秒杀。= =） Tell her you've been thinking about her. 告诉她你一直在想她。 Call her just to say hi and see what's she's been doing. Send her a little note that says you enjoyed spending time together. An email is okay, hand written and dropped at her door or mailed is better. 给她打电话，只说“hi”，问问她在干什么。给她发信息，告诉她你很享受你们在一起的时光。邮件也OK，手写的，丢在她家门口或者邮寄给她就更棒了。（译者：好浪漫~~~TAT） Be careful not to over do it. You don't want to seem like a stalker. Look for signs that your flirtation is unwanted. Does she get off the phone quickly when you call? Do you send her long flowery e-mails, only to get one line answers in return? If so, back off and let her come to you. 小心，别过头了。你肯定也不想看起来像个跟踪狂。注意她是否暗示你的调情是不必要的。她是否在你打电话的时候很快挂掉？你给她寄了长篇华丽的邮件，是否只得到她一行字的回复？如果是这样，后退一步，让她来找你吧。 Good luck and most of all, have fun! 祝你好运，最终要的是，玩的开心！ 译者最后注： 虽然有些招数非常的American，但还是非常有借鉴意义的。 其实总结出来就是： 身体接触，眼神交流，言语赞美，保持通讯。 哈哈哈哈哈。