father and son
第一次听到这首歌，我就把它理解为父亲一个人的独述，而非很多人通认的对白。
多少次眼泪流向歌词和旋律的海洋，飞溅出的水珠溅满了脸庞。
父亲独白：
It's not time to make a change,
Just relax, take it easy.
You're still young, that's your fault,
There's so much you have to know.
Find a girl, settle down,
If you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.
现在去改变已经太晚了，
放松下来，放慢生活。
你还依然太年轻，如果说你有什么缺陷的话，这一定算是一个。
你需要知道的还有很多，时间都会慢慢告诉你。
找个女孩，定下来，当然你也可以跟她结婚。
看看我，我虽然这么老了都没结婚，但是我过的很开心。
I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy,
To be calm when you've found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot,
Why, think of everything you've got.
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not.
我曾经年轻过，所以我知道有时候，
当有些事情发生，真的很难控制住自己。
但是你有时间，慢慢来，多想想，
想想你为什么要去做一件事，
想想你现在所拥有的一切，
去考虑你是想永远拥有，还是可以放下一些。
因为你会一直生活下去，但你的梦想也许不会。
How can I try to explain, cause when I do it turns away again.
It's always been the same, same old story.
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen.
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.
我该怎样试着去解释人生之多艰：
当我每一次追求所想，人生却再一次背离我，
人生总是这样一次、一次、又一次的背离我。
自从我在摇篮里学会说话的那一刻起，我就被要求去听，
这种对自我的背离，我已经体验太多。
后来，我面前出现了一条路，
那是怎样一条追求自我的路啊，
我知道我一定会走下去。
It's not time to make a change,
Just sit down, take it slowly.
You're still young, that's your fault,
There's so much you have to go through.
Find a girl, settle down,
if you want, you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.
现在去改变也许还早，
你还年轻，这是你的命门，但是你可以慢慢来。
你未来要经历的还有很多，
可以先找个女孩，定下来，或者结婚，
我垂垂老矣，但是回顾一生，我过的总是开心的。
All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside,
It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it.
If they were right, I'd agree, but it's them they know not me.
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.
我曾一次次的陷入困境，痛苦而痛哭。
追求内心的旅程注定是艰难的，
但是对我来说，忽视内心、摒弃自我 更加难。
每个人都有自己的人生，
我知道他们走的路也是对的。
但是他们是他们，不是我。
后来我走了自己的路，跟别人的路都不太一样。
我知道我会一直走下去。
多少次眼泪流向歌词和旋律的海洋，飞溅出的水珠溅满了脸庞。
父亲独白：
It's not time to make a change,
Just relax, take it easy.
You're still young, that's your fault,
There's so much you have to know.
Find a girl, settle down,
If you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.
现在去改变已经太晚了，
放松下来，放慢生活。
你还依然太年轻，如果说你有什么缺陷的话，这一定算是一个。
你需要知道的还有很多，时间都会慢慢告诉你。
找个女孩，定下来，当然你也可以跟她结婚。
看看我，我虽然这么老了都没结婚，但是我过的很开心。
I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy,
To be calm when you've found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot,
Why, think of everything you've got.
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not.
我曾经年轻过，所以我知道有时候，
当有些事情发生，真的很难控制住自己。
但是你有时间，慢慢来，多想想，
想想你为什么要去做一件事，
想想你现在所拥有的一切，
去考虑你是想永远拥有，还是可以放下一些。
因为你会一直生活下去，但你的梦想也许不会。
How can I try to explain, cause when I do it turns away again.
It's always been the same, same old story.
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen.
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.
我该怎样试着去解释人生之多艰：
当我每一次追求所想，人生却再一次背离我，
人生总是这样一次、一次、又一次的背离我。
自从我在摇篮里学会说话的那一刻起，我就被要求去听，
这种对自我的背离，我已经体验太多。
后来，我面前出现了一条路，
那是怎样一条追求自我的路啊，
我知道我一定会走下去。
It's not time to make a change,
Just sit down, take it slowly.
You're still young, that's your fault,
There's so much you have to go through.
Find a girl, settle down,
if you want, you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.
现在去改变也许还早，
你还年轻，这是你的命门，但是你可以慢慢来。
你未来要经历的还有很多，
可以先找个女孩，定下来，或者结婚，
我垂垂老矣，但是回顾一生，我过的总是开心的。
All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside,
It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it.
If they were right, I'd agree, but it's them they know not me.
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.
我曾一次次的陷入困境，痛苦而痛哭。
追求内心的旅程注定是艰难的，
但是对我来说，忽视内心、摒弃自我 更加难。
每个人都有自己的人生，
我知道他们走的路也是对的。
但是他们是他们，不是我。
后来我走了自己的路，跟别人的路都不太一样。
我知道我会一直走下去。
