如何成为一个更好的交谈者?How to be a better conversationalist?
• 一个好的交谈是这样的,在交谈之后,你会感到很受鼓舞,很享受,和别人拥有了真实的连接,你自己完全被他人所理解。A really great conversation is the kind of conversation where you walk away feeling engaged and inspired, where you feel like you have made a real connection or you have been perfectly understood. • 1. 不要三心二意。Don’t multitask. • 2. 不要好为人师。Don’t pontificate. • 3. 使用开放性问题。Use open-ended questions. • 4. 顺其自然。Go with the flow. • 5. 如果你不知道,说你不知道。If you don’t know, say that you don’t know. • 6. 不要把自己的经历和他人比较。 Don’t equate your experience with theirs. • 7. 不要重复说相同的话。Try not to repeat the same sentence. • 8. 少说废话。 Stay out of the weeds. • 9. 倾听。 Listen. • 10. 简明扼要。 Be berief. miniskirt be prepared to be amazed • Be interested with other people. 多听少说。