为什么女人在家里的角色最重要？
家庭是一个五行。
女人在家是水位，男人是火位，老人是土位，孩子居金或木位。
女人当好了，能把孩子养育好，即水生木；
孩子好了，男人心情好，在外面打拼更有动力，这叫木生火；
男人在外尽职尽责，有出息，老人无所挂念，这叫火生土；
老人对孙子孙女慈爱，尽享天伦之乐，这是土生金。
五行推转，家庭必然和乐兴旺。
所以，关键在女人。
女人是跟孩子，丈夫接触最多的角色，女人的一言一行，关系到整个家庭的兴衰。
那应该怎么做一个好女人呢？
一，要性如水。也就是要柔和，对人、事、物不挑剔，像水一样和万物，拿出“怎么都行”的态度来，一切没说。
二，口出莲花。只讲别人好处，不讲缺点。尤其在丈夫和孩子面前，不能乱嚼舌根。
三，勤快持家。这个不多解释，地球人都知道。
四，不为小事纠结。犹豫不定最消耗气血。所以，对小事不要纠结，当断则断。
五，不要小气。小气的女人容易受穷，而且愿望不易成真。古人说，有舍才有得。对于财物，该舍时不要含糊，人嘛，越大方，越富有。
现在的女人，既要工作，又要教育孩子，容易心身俱疲，但只要时刻保持积极向上的思想，多用以上几条提醒和约束自己，一定能越做越好。
一切成功都来自于潜意识中的提醒和约束。
谢谢大家，我是三姑娘宁玲肖，专注家庭和乐兴旺！
为方便外国朋友阅读，或供英语爱好者参考，文章英文翻译如下：
Why woman plays the most important role in a family?
A family is made up of 5 elements.
Woman is water, man is fire, old people are earth, children are wood or gold.
If woman does well in a family, she can raise up children well, this is water boosts wood;
if the children are well, the man has more power to work hard, this is wood boosts fire;
when the man works hard and becomes successfull,the old people won't worry about him, this is fire boosts wood;
the old people love their grandchildren and enjoy the life, this is earth boosts gold.
When 5 elements run in order, the family must be prosperous and happy.
So, woman is the most point in a family.
They are the one who deal with children and their husbands most in a day, their behavior has something to do with the whole family's prosperity.
But how to be a good woman?
i) We should be as mild as water. Never be critical to people and things. we should get along well with anything. Our attitude to everything "that is ok".
ii)Say good words about others all the time. Never say bad words, especially in front of our husbands and children, don't be gossiping.
iii)Be a hard-working housewife. No more explanation here, i belive everybody knows this.
iv)don't be indecisive. hesitating will waste our vigor and blood.
We should be decisive at the time.
V)don't be stingy. Stingy woman will become poor easily, and it is always difficult for them to achieve the goal. like an old saying, you get until you give something out. Be generous with money or other objects. More generous, more rich.
Nowadays, women have to work and take care of children at the same time. We may get tired easily. But as long as we keep positive mood, remind and restrain ourselves all the time, we will be better and better.
Actually, all success come from reminding and restriction to our potential mind.
Thank you, this is Miss 3 Ning Lingxiao, let's help our family be prosperous!
女人在家是水位，男人是火位，老人是土位，孩子居金或木位。
女人当好了，能把孩子养育好，即水生木；
孩子好了，男人心情好，在外面打拼更有动力，这叫木生火；
男人在外尽职尽责，有出息，老人无所挂念，这叫火生土；
老人对孙子孙女慈爱，尽享天伦之乐，这是土生金。
五行推转，家庭必然和乐兴旺。
所以，关键在女人。
女人是跟孩子，丈夫接触最多的角色，女人的一言一行，关系到整个家庭的兴衰。
那应该怎么做一个好女人呢？
一，要性如水。也就是要柔和，对人、事、物不挑剔，像水一样和万物，拿出“怎么都行”的态度来，一切没说。
二，口出莲花。只讲别人好处，不讲缺点。尤其在丈夫和孩子面前，不能乱嚼舌根。
三，勤快持家。这个不多解释，地球人都知道。
四，不为小事纠结。犹豫不定最消耗气血。所以，对小事不要纠结，当断则断。
五，不要小气。小气的女人容易受穷，而且愿望不易成真。古人说，有舍才有得。对于财物，该舍时不要含糊，人嘛，越大方，越富有。
现在的女人，既要工作，又要教育孩子，容易心身俱疲，但只要时刻保持积极向上的思想，多用以上几条提醒和约束自己，一定能越做越好。
一切成功都来自于潜意识中的提醒和约束。
谢谢大家，我是三姑娘宁玲肖，专注家庭和乐兴旺！
为方便外国朋友阅读，或供英语爱好者参考，文章英文翻译如下：
Why woman plays the most important role in a family?
A family is made up of 5 elements.
Woman is water, man is fire, old people are earth, children are wood or gold.
If woman does well in a family, she can raise up children well, this is water boosts wood;
if the children are well, the man has more power to work hard, this is wood boosts fire;
when the man works hard and becomes successfull,the old people won't worry about him, this is fire boosts wood;
the old people love their grandchildren and enjoy the life, this is earth boosts gold.
When 5 elements run in order, the family must be prosperous and happy.
So, woman is the most point in a family.
They are the one who deal with children and their husbands most in a day, their behavior has something to do with the whole family's prosperity.
But how to be a good woman?
i) We should be as mild as water. Never be critical to people and things. we should get along well with anything. Our attitude to everything "that is ok".
ii)Say good words about others all the time. Never say bad words, especially in front of our husbands and children, don't be gossiping.
iii)Be a hard-working housewife. No more explanation here, i belive everybody knows this.
iv)don't be indecisive. hesitating will waste our vigor and blood.
We should be decisive at the time.
V)don't be stingy. Stingy woman will become poor easily, and it is always difficult for them to achieve the goal. like an old saying, you get until you give something out. Be generous with money or other objects. More generous, more rich.
Nowadays, women have to work and take care of children at the same time. We may get tired easily. But as long as we keep positive mood, remind and restrain ourselves all the time, we will be better and better.
Actually, all success come from reminding and restriction to our potential mind.
Thank you, this is Miss 3 Ning Lingxiao, let's help our family be prosperous!
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