绕不过去的人生意义（双语）, 哪一句最打动你？
近日，爱看书的小伙伴给我发来这张实拍，让我看看Kindle的后两段文字：
生命的意义是非常重要的心理架构，与每个人都有非常重要的关系。伟大的心理学家荣格说，我的病人大约有三分之一不是罹患了任何临床可以定义的疾病，而只是因为生命没有意义，没有目标。
这个问题到了心理学家法兰克那里，有了升级版。他说，最少有百分之五十的来访者有这种问题——觉得生命没有意义。
随后，我俩聊起了人生意义。对这个主题的思索，令人重新觉察心底真正的渴望，以此为指引，让生活更接近、回归重心，避免沦为水上浮萍。
正巧，前阵子我在翻译What is Life about (by Fearless soul)，把初译稿发给了三位朋友，征求修改意见。有一位跟我说，很久没思考过人生意义了，这里面的一些话很触动她，与她最近的经历引发的思索有关。
“人生意义”这个议题，哪怕你不主动去想，它也会像不速之客一样，时不时地到访，潜入你的思绪。我收藏了这首翻译的诗，它肯定不是标准答案，但无妨备作下次思索的药引子。看似空洞的命题，关键时刻能让我从日常琐碎抽离，为我解疑。
在此，和你来一个互动：
下面的这首诗，有没有哪句话很打动你？
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What Is Life About – Inspirational Speech by FearlessSoul
人生真谛 作者：无畏之魂
Life is not about
proving anyone wrong
人生在世，勿执于指责他人过错
Life is about proving yourself right
关键在于做好自己
Life is not about competing
against others
人生不是在与他人赛跑
But life is about competing
against yourself
而是同自己较量
To make sure you are better
than your previous self
去超越自己
Better than you were yesterday
比昨天有所进步
To make sure you are
growing every day
用时间雕琢蜕变
Developing, learning experiencing
持续成长、学习和体验
Life is not about being perfect.
It is about being happy
人生不在于追求完美，幸福才是真谛
Not all the time.
But every time you can.
不求快乐时刻相伴，但求抓住幸福时光
Life isn’t about being right.
It’s about being kind.
人生不在于追求正确，而在于秉持善良
When you have a choice to be right or to be kind, choose kindness,
choose love.
当正确与善意必选其一
请选择善良，选择关爱
Life is not about
noticing the negatives.
人生不要总盯着消极面
It’s about creating such huge positives the negatives
pale in comparison.
而是去创造足够多的美好
消极自会黯然失色
Life is not about you.
It’s about everyone and everything.
没有人是一座孤岛
We are all connected and all sharing challenges and struggles.
每个人都息息相关
面临苦难 共迎挑战
Be kind, lift others up, give freely without expecting anything in return and the world will return happiness and abundance beyond
your wildest dreams.
与人为善，激励他人
不求回报，慷慨付出
世界回馈于你的愉悦和富足
将远远超乎你的想象
Life isn’t all about money
金钱不是人生的唯一
You can’t take it with you,
so don’t stress about it.
别把这个身外之物看得太重
为之忧心忡忡
This doesn’t mean you don’t deserve it or shouldn’t have it.
这并不意味着，你不配或不该拥有金钱
You can create unlimited abundance and use that to do good for others and yourself and you DO DESERVE IT,
just don’t stress about it.
你可以创造无尽的财富
为他人和自己做些有意义的事；
你本来就配得上这些财富
只是别太为之焦虑
Money is great, but only when used with positive intentions.
金钱是美好的，前提是用得其所
Life isn’t about
comparing yourself to others.
人生无需攀比
Let everyone else be exactly as they are while you focus on
being the best you
尊重他人本来的样子
专注于做最好的自己
Your life is not defined
by circumstances
你的人生不应被外在环境所限
Your life is not defined by what does or does not happen to you。
那些已发生在你身上或还没到来的事
也无法定义你的人生
It is defined by how you react to
what happens to you.
人生取决于你如何回应所经历的一切
How you choose to react to the circumstances and events
that arrive in your life.
怎样对待周遭和进入你生命中的人和事
It’s helpful to remember
challenges are just tests.
把挑战当作考验，大有裨益
Hard times are test and
character builders.
困难时刻，往往是打磨坚毅的利器
Never lose your spirit, because it is in ourgreatest challenges that
our greatest strength is formed.
永远别放弃你的信念
正是困境的历练锻造出了无比的顽强
That is when our character shines, right afterthe storm.
历经风雨洗礼，品格将闪闪发亮
What’s really important is Who you become through all of life’s challenges.
人生真正重要的是，历经种种考验后
你所成为的那个你
What you make and accumulate will never be a match for Who you are and how much happiness
you bring to this world。
你的个人成就，远不及“你是谁”重要
也无法媲美你所带来的欢乐
Don’t ever forget that.
请把这点牢记于心
You are a miracle. This world is a blessing. Life is a miracle.
你是一个奇迹，天地万物都是恩赐
生命是非凡之谜
Life is really what you make it.
你的人生，由你创造
Live every day like you are blessed.
宛若上天眷顾，过好每一天
Live every day as if you are
grateful to simply be alive.
对每一天的呼吸尚在，心怀感激
Be happy, no matter what happens and life will be the amazing adventure it was meant to be.
欢笑吧，无论发生什么
人生都将注定是一场精彩斑斓的探险之旅
Your purpose, and my wish for you is simple: To be happy, to find happiness no matter what life throws at you.
你的追求和我的祝福，都很简单：
拥抱快乐，追寻幸福
无论生活向你抛来什么
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