读书笔记--Becoming (Chapter6)

"I see now that she provoked me in a good way, introducing me to the idea that not everyone needs to have their file folders labeled and alphabetized, or even to have files at all. Years later,I'd fall in love with a guy who,like Suzanne, stored his belongs in heaps and felt no compunction, really ever, to fold his clothes. But I was able to coexisting with that guy to this day. This is what a control freak learns inside the compressed otherwolrd of clllege, maybe above all else: There are simply other ways of being."

I wish I had read this before I went to college 😭of course at that time the book wasn't publish yet.