In order to live / 为了活着

As the saying goes, life is not easy to come by, especially in order to survive. Being able to survive better means that one has to make more efforts than others. And no matter what kind of situation, I still think that people should give this is not easy to a kind of their own respect, that kind of respect from the heart, because everything is to live. I don't know what kind of person you are, and I don't want to know what kind of person you are, because people like us who do writing never divide objects. If my words can help you to survive better, and you regard me as a bosom friend, then I will remember you from my heart and regard you as my bosom friend, which is what is called " a man dies for a bosom friend, a woman for a person who delights himself".Although I am not a aspiring youth or a beautiful woman, I will write more such words. I do not know whether they are the words you like to read, whether they can give you any enlightenment, or whether they will cause you any psychological pressure. I can only use these three " unknowns" as gifts to repay your appreciation of individuals. If you like my words, just waste a little time watching them silently. However, if my words cause any harm to you, then I would like to express my apologies. Some truth will inevitably hurt people. In order to show respect for you, individuals can only use euphemisms and sentences. Some time ago, I just met a people's teacher named Xizi, and they had a good talk. during the talk, we talked about this problem: " don't look at what people have on the surface, because some people are poor in their mouths, while others are rich in their minds." The conclusion is that people have no right to belittle other people's lives, because people can only see what has happened to themselves and others at most, and then guess the motives and existing factors behind it. Speculations like this, which need to be done by guesswork, cannot be counted as seeing through. Facts have proved that there are only things that people can see clearly in the world, not to mention people who cannot see through, let alone their lives. Just as the so-called social people and social affairs, in this world there are plenty of social people and more social affairs that people cannot understand. However, these do not constitute the reason why people do not understand them. On the contrary, people need to know more about them. Only in this way can people understand each other more; Only in this way can the intersection between people reach a harmonious state fundamentally; Only in this way can basic goodwill and trust be generated between people. That is why people need to respect each other in the future. The article writes about this place, and I believe everyone can see that although " understanding" is two simple Chinese characters, it is not easy to extend it to people. Because it is difficult to understand each other without understanding people, so-called blending will not occur without understanding people, and there can be no trust between people. Since people do not understand what respect can be talked about or not. Then " understanding" is extended to other things, is it not like this? Therefore, people should first understand the people or things they are facing, preferably with personal interests, so that people can give their inner thoughts or behaviors with an understanding attitude. Only in this way can people look at all things in the world with a kind of eyes called love, and only in this way can people deal with all things in the world with an inclusive mind. Therefore, they can show a state of being trusted by others and responsible for all things to meet the people and things that follow in life, thus being regarded as worthy of being regarded by people all the time. Therefore, it is not easy for people to live, because people should not only pay attention to the problems that happen to them, but also pay attention to the above problems all the time. It's okay to live simply. Maybe we can choose a more free way. We just need to pay a little attention to our behavior. It's okay to look like we can muddle along. On the contrary, people may need to live a little more tired, that is, when they haven't formed a habit in the early days, they need to slowly cultivate their own habits. After getting used to it, they can actually behave relatively naturally and have a feeling of being free from vulgarity and broad - minded. But in the end, all this can only be attributed to one kind of behavior, that is, to live, only people choose different ways of living. I understand your way of life, so I respect the plain life you choose. As for whether you understand my way of life, it doesn't matter. I can accept even false respect. Even if you don't understand or respect it, I will still understand you. What I can give back to you is my sincere respect. Perhaps that is the way a person chooses to live. Obviously, that person lives more tired than anyone else, but this will not affect the survival of others. At the same time, I also believe that if the person can be persuaded, people will definitely not be stingy with giving personal suggestions and opinions. If they cannot be persuaded, they will have to resign themselves to fate. If this happens to me, I think I can still choose to respect that person. Two days ago, a friend told me that if you want to live better, then it is time for you to take out something for people to see and see how well people are living. However, I told my friends that people are becoming big brothers while I am becoming a grandson. Is there anything worse? So it doesn't matter, take your time, once you get anxious, it's easy to don't even know what's going on with the most basic methods of living. What else can you do to live well? All in all, people just want to live. To live, they have to solve the most basic survival problem and then talk about others. As for what kind of living method people choose, it doesn't matter, because such things as living method have been changing with the passage of time. The article came to a close at this place. People are saying that in order to live, sometimes looking at plum can quench one's thirst and painting cakes can also relieve one's hunger. Yes, this time can achieve some miraculous effect on people, but the final solution to the problem of hunger and thirst is the sweet spring that can fundamentally solve the problem of thirst, or the food that can truly solve the problem of hunger and thirst. People live to solve these problems. Old habits, before the end of the article still want to give you a word, that is: life is precious, life more trouble!

心动的瞬间，就是我们彼此的不期而遇

俗话说生命来之不易，为了生存下去更是如此，能够更好生存下去说明人要比别人付出更多的努力才行。且不论是什么样的情况下，我还是觉得人应该给这份不易一种属于自己的尊重，那种由心而发的敬意，因为一切都是为了活着。我不知道你是一个什么样的人，而我也不想去知道你是一个什么样的人，因为像我们这种做文字的人是从不会去分对象而作的。如果我的文字对你而言，有一点可以帮助到你更好生存下去的地方，而你也将我视之为知音的话，那么我从会心里把你记住，把你当成是我的知己，正所谓“士为知己者死，女为悦己者容”嘛。虽然我不是什么志士更不是什么美女，但是我会编织更多这样的文字，不知道是不是你们爱看的文字，不知道能不能带给你们什么启示的文字，也不知道会不会给你们造成什么心理压力的文字，只能用这三个不知道作为回敬于你们对个人欣赏的礼物。如果喜欢我的文字，浪费你们一点时间默默看着就行；但如果我的文字给你们造成什么伤害，那么我表示一下歉意，有些实话难免会伤及到人，为了表示尊重你们，个人只能做到委婉一点用词和用句。前段时间刚认识了一位叫西子的人民教师，两个人相谈盛欢，期间我们就谈到了这个问题“不看人表面上拥有什么，因为有的人是穷在嘴上的，而有的人是富在脑里的”。结论就是人们没有权利去贬低别的人生，因为人最多只能看清自己及已发生在别人身上的事物再到猜测其背后的动机和存在因素，像这种需要靠猜测来完成的推测并不能算看透。事实证明，世界上有的只是被人们看明白的事物，并没有被看穿的人，更别提什么看透谁的人生了。正所谓社会人社会事，这个世界上有的是人所了解不完的社会人，多的是人了解不完的社会事，但是这些并不能构成人不去了解他们的理由，相反之，人需要去了解他们更多。只有这样，人与人之间的相互理解才会更多；只有这样，人与人之间的交集才能从根本上达到一种融洽的状态；也只有这样，人与人之间才会产生基本的好感及信任；以至于后来的彼此尊重，人们更是需要如此。文章写到这个地方，相信大家也看出来了，“了解”虽然是简单的两个汉字，引申到人的身上那就变得不简单了。因为不了解人们就难以相互理解，不了解人们之间也不会产生所谓的交融，不了解人们之间不可能存在信任一说，既然都不了解还能谈什么尊重与否。进而将“了解”引申到其它事物上来，何尝不是这样子呢！所以，无论是对事还是对人，人们首先应该先去了解所要面对的人或事，最好是加之以个人兴趣去深入了解，这样人才能抱着一种理解的态度去给出属于个人内心的想法或者行为，只有这样人才会用一种叫做爱的眼光去看待世间万物，也只有这样人才能抱以一种包容的心理去处理世上诸事，因此才能体现一种足够被他人信任且又对一切负责任的状态去迎接人生中接踵而来而来的人和事，从而才会被人们视之为值得一直被尊重的对象。所以说人活着不容易，因为人们不光要在意发生于自己身上的难题的同时，还得时时刻刻去注意以上的这些问题。简单活着还好，或许我们还可以选择更加自由点的方式，只需要稍微注意一下行为表现就行，一副看上去得过且过可有可无的样子也是可以有的，相反之，人可能需要活得稍微再累一点，就是前期还没有养成一种习惯的时候，需要慢慢去培养自己的习惯，习惯了之后其实还是可以表现的相对比较自然的，有种超凡脱俗胸怀宽广的感觉。可这一切最终都只能归根于一种行为，那就是为了活着，只不过是人们选择了不同的活法而已。我理解你的活法，所以我尊重你选择的平淡生活，至于你是不是理解我的活法，不要紧，就算是虚伪的尊重我也能够接受，哪怕是你不理解也不尊重都行，我仍然会理解你的，而我能够回馈于你的只能是我诚挚的敬意。或许那就是某个人所选择的活法，显然那个人活得要比任何人都累的更多，但是这并不会影响到其他人的生存，同时我也相信，要是能劝得住该人的话，人们一定不会吝啬于给出一些属于个人的建议及看法，实在劝不住也就只能听天由命了。如果这种事发生在我身上的话，我想我还是可以选择尊重那个人的。前两天有个朋友跟我说，如果你想要活得更好，那么你是时候该拿出点东西让人们看得到了，你看看人们都活得多好。然而我跟朋友说，人们都混成个大爷了，而我却混成个孙子，还有比这更糟糕的事吗？所以没关系的，慢慢来，人一旦急起来，容易连最基本的活法都不知道是怎么回事，还能有活好什么事呢。总之一切的一切，人们只不过是为了活着，要想活着就得解决最基本的生存问题再言说其它，至于人是选择什么样的活法并不重要，因为活法这种东西随着时间的推移是一直在变化的。小文到这个地方也就差不多结束了，人们都在说，为了活着，有的时候，望梅可以止渴，画饼也可以充饥。没错，这种时候在人身上是可以达到某种奇效的，但是最终能解决人的饥渴问题的，还得是那口能够从根本上解决人口渴问题的甘泉，还是要那份从根本上真正能够解决人饥饿问题的食物。而人活着，就是为了解决这些问题而来的。老习惯，在文章结束之前还是要送给大家一句话，那就是：生命诚可贵，人生多折腾！