爱情是世界上最甜蜜的东西
爱情是世界上最甜蜜的东西，身处其中的人感觉自己永不厌烦、永不疲惫、永不衰老。
Love is the most sweetest thing is the world,and the person in it feel that they are never bored,never tired,never aging.
毫无疑问，爱人属于我们的“精神家族”，我们的精神因他而朝气蓬勃。当我们的心中装下了爱人的心，不但不觉沉重，反倒像鸟儿那样能更勇敢更自在地飞翔；它进入了我们的生活为我们的人生添了一双眼睛、开了一扇门，使我们的世界变得更丰富更广阔。正因为如此，我们才忍不住用“婚姻”这样类似于“歃血为盟”的仪式将这一个“精神家族”中的灵魂人物转型为我们“血缘家族”中的人生伴侣。这也是一种后天创造的“人工血缘”，是在“血缘家族”与“精神家族”之间完成的一次富有创造力的伟大跨越。
There is no doubt that lover is belong our "spiritual family", because of it our spirit is full of engery. When the lover is in our heart, It is not only we don't feel heavy,but we fly more encourage and more freely like a bird;it entered our life to added a pair of eyes and opened a door to make our world richer and wider.Because of it,we can't help transforming the soul of this "spiritual family" into a life partner in our "blood family" with a ritual similar to "marriage". This is also a kind of "artificial blood" created by the day after tomorrow. It is a great and creative crossover between the "blood family" and the "spiritual family".
与恋人的相处过程中，往往会经过较长一段时间并不轻松的磨合，然后我们透过他的眼睛、他的思考，看到的是一个相比于认识他之前更自由、更欢乐、更充满希望、更深情款款的新世界；因为他，我们比之前更懂得热爱自己的生命和生活，也学会了如何去珍惜他人的生命和生活；偶尔我们反躬自省、与认识他之前的那个“我”相互对照，发现自己不知不觉中正在变成一个更真诚、更勇敢、更坚强、更通情达理、更值得自己尊敬的人；当我们与恋人因为生活琐事或习惯差异而争吵，情绪激动之后选择冷静一段时间，却发现我们的胃口、活力、兴致也不可救药地随之一同冷却，此时，我们会明白，有这样的恋人相伴，我们是幸福的，也是幸运的。他带给我们的是弥足珍贵的爱情。
In the process of getting along with the lover, it is always not easy to running in for a long time,then we through his eyes and his thoughts,to see a new world which is more freely ,more happier,more hopeful and more deeper feeling than before;because of him, we konw how to love our life and live better than before,and learnt how to cherish life and live of others; sometimes we reflect ourself,to compared myself before knew him,and found that I was unconsciously becoming a person who was more sincere,brave ,stronger more reasonable and more worth of respecting myself;when we aruge with our lover because of different in life and habit,we will choose to be alone for a while after our emotional is calm down,and we found that our appetite, vitality, and interest are also irresistibly cooled together,at this time ,we understood that we were so happy,so lucky to had such a lover accompanied us,and he also brought us a precious love.
有一次，在我和朋友们讨论爱情时，达成了这样一个共识：真正的爱情“爱富不嫌贫”。不论怎样，爱情无限美好。物质上的丰裕当然是好事，它可以为“爱情”锦上添花。两个人用爱情构筑起的“属于王子与公主的梦幻宫殿”会凭借着“富有”而轻松地得以竣工。但是“富有”配制不出那使人一口喝下便坠入爱河的魔法“药水”；金钱再无所不能，终究收买不了“丘比特”手中的箭。
Once I talked about love with friends ,we reached a consensus that true love is " love rich but not to dislike poor".In any case,love is infinitely beautiful.The material abundance is absolute a good thing ,it is icing on the cake for love.The "Fantasy Palace of Princes and Princesses" built by two people with love will be easily completed with "rich".However, "rich" can't formulate the magic "potion" that makes people fall into love; money can do nothing,and finally can't buy the arrow in the hands of Cupid.
而“富有”对爱情的另一个巨大的贡献在于：它是爱情的试金石。或许，只有经历过“贫富”考验的人才知道爱情的力量有多强大；或许，最“值钱”的爱人从未想过“值得不值得”的问题。面对爱人，只要我们有发自内心的爱，那么，无论他贫或富，从来不动摇他在我心中的“贵”。
Another great contribution of rich to love is that it is the touchstone of love.Perhaps who have experienced the test of "rich or poor" and know that how powerful the love is ;perhaps,the most valuable is that lover has never thought about the question is that it is worth or not.To face the lover,as long as we have loved him/her from heart,and then, whether he is poor or rich,it will never waver his valuables in my heart.
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