what is real love?
That's what real love amounts to — letting a person be what he really is.Most people love you for who you pretend to be.To keep their love, you keep pretending — performing.You get to love your pretence.It's true, we're locked in an image, an act — and the sad thing is, people get so used to their image, they grow attached to their masks.They love their chains. They forget all about who they really are.And if you try to remind them, they hate you for it, they feel like you're trying to steal their most precious possession.
那才是真爱的含义——让一个人成为真正的自己。大多数人爱的是你所假装的那个人。为了留住他们的爱,你一直在假装——表演。你都爱上了自己的伪装。事实上,我们都被困在一种形象、一种伪装之中——令人悲伤的是,人们习惯了他们伪装的形象,他们无法脱下伪装的面具。他们喜欢困住他们的枷锁。他们忘记了真正的自己。而如果你试图提醒他们,他们会厌恶你,会认为你想偷走他们最宝贵的东西。什么是真爱?真爱就是允许你继续做自己,但又能让你成为更好的自己。
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