2010-2020里的33天

1. 2020 is the beginning of the third year me away from my country of origin.

2. It is also the 11th year that my grandpa had left home to travel alone.

3. In the past ten years, I had become a completely different person, and my prior personality had thoroughly been replaced.

4. I'm basically satisfied with my new personality.

5. Been to many countries and met many people. Ordinary people, incredible people, beautiful people, and of course, jerks.

6. Offered true love to some people, and had truly been loved. I never played with love, so I have no regret on it.

7. At the age of 26, my health and appearance were both at their peaks.

8. I chose to marry to the man who I think loves me the most. He is smarter and better looking than the upper average.

9. I'm the woman who can make money. He earns more than I do. We are both independent people who can live on our owns at early ages. The families on both sides satisfy with each other without any disagreements.

10. Durham University was the key word for my past decade. She shaped my personality and fertilized me to achieve mature, so my soul became rich. I gained precious friendship in Durham.

11. I’ve been in UK twice in total of 2 years. UK brought me important tips towards life.

12. During the decade, I answered those life questions by myself at every crossroad.

13. Answered the questions by myself, and bore the results by myself. The variety of results urged me to grow.

14. I was gifted with ordinary, but unwilling to surrender to destiny. I always know what I want.

15. What I want most is never in related to money.

16. Once experienced with an unusual catastrophe. The darkness tried to devour me, but I refused to give in and I survived.

17. Became a mother. I had been kicked onto the fast lane for the past 3 years. I closed my eyes and obeyed the speed of fate. I had gone through all kinds of new difficulties without struggling too much, and my son always led me through the fortunes of his luck.

18. From the beginning of 2019, I started a fairly ideal life. Settled down with my husband, my son, and my dog in a small town on the other side of the planet.

19. I was hired by a local company with a good reputation and met many valuable people.

20. There are still some stuff need to be polished, but sooner or later they will be resolved. No need to worry too much.

21. This year I bought a lot of real high heels. In my new life, there are many big and tall people. This made me very happy.

22. There are no more painful tears about food safety, medical care, and education. My family is covered with full drug plan by our employers.

23. I go to work during the day, and come back on 4:30 p.m. Every night after my son goes to bed, I would have some free time downstairs.

24. No more overtime and frequent travels.

25. My husband is no longer overwhelmed with work and always has a lot of time with me.

26. Our hobbies about life are expanding. We work on recipes, plants, and wood works.

27. During weekends we would go hiking in the small forest near the city.

28. When it rained heavily, my neighbor old John would remind us to check if the water pipes in the yard were blocked by leaves. At Christmas, I could receive super delicious handmade snacks from old John’s wife.

29. 10 years ago, Mr. Leo S told me that in his Denmark, ‘3V life’ is the standard of happiness: Villa(house), Volvo(car), and Ulvehund(dog). I think living in this small town, I finally could get his point.

30. At the end of 2019, I did ear piercing. Like a cut point, said goodbye to these 10 years.

31. Life will never go with plan. When everything is ready, it’s the time to lose.

32. Thus, in the next decade, I still need to be brave and not afraid of falling.

33. And I should make peace with the past. Believing that those losts would come back to me in another form someday.

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Always feel grateful to my family. They are my eternal harbor.