Ted 14 人和人之间的性格差距
Gratuitous and intrusive
Thundering twit
Trait psychology : align people along five dimensions which are normally distributed
OCEAN
O: open to experience – closed
C: conscientiousness – lackadaisical approach to life
E: extroversion – introversion
A: agreeable – decidedly not agreeable
N: neurotic individuals-more stable
Audacious
Sticking to deadlines
Conducive to working well with people
Consequential
Three natures:
1. Biogenic nature- our neurophysiology
2. Sociogenic or second nature
3. Idiosyncratic/ idogenic nature
Conjugal act
Diminutive term
Contingent
Weasel-word sentence
More or less as it were not to put too fine a point upon that
Assertive
Allude to
Lunge for
Be Heedful of
You’re like some other people, and like no other person.
Put people in pigeonholes
What is it that makes us different? It’s the doings that have in our life—the personal projects. Administrative torpor
Enact
Core project
Free traits
Arduous day of study
Act Protractedly out of character
Escape the slings and arrows
Evacuatory noises
Gavelly voice
Constipate
Summary
Trait psychology aligns people along five dimensions, such as introversion v.s. extroversion, conscientiousness v.s. laziness. At the same time, we also have our idiosyncrasies, so people cannot be pigeonholed carelessly. What set us apart are our own personal projects, which are things we feel so passionate about that they could lead us to act out of character. After behaving out of character protractedly, however, we need to find some ways to refuel so we will not feel too uncomfortable.
